The real fat loss MVP
Ever wonder why some days you’re crushing your health goals and other days you’re staring at the pantry like it owes you answers? Turns out, your nervous system might be the culprit. Your body is like a thermostat, working overtime to keep everything balanced. But if your nervous system is stuck in “fight or flight” mode, that thermostat gets about as reliable as Wi-Fi in the middle of nowhere. Suddenly, fat loss is harder, sleep is a joke, and energy feels like a mythical creature.
The other morning, after dropping my daughter off somewhere, I was ready to come home and work out. Or so I thought. Instead of feeling pumped, my brain was hosting a nonstop to-do list rave and I felt like I’d already run a marathon -- except the only thing I’d sprinted for was coffee. So, before jumping into leg day, I decided to press pause and do some deep belly breathing. Picture me in my kitchen, mid-breath, while my son asked why I was “pretending to be a balloon.” A couple of minutes later, the fog lifted and I felt like a functional human again. My workout? Way better than it would have been. My mood? No longer resembling a stressed-out squirrel. I tapped into the breath ... the only function that's automatic, yet we can take conscious control of it anytime. It's like a bridge to our nervous system that we have access to 24/7.
When your body senses stress, your autonomic nervous system flips into survival mode. This is great if you’re being chased by a bear -- not so much when the “threat” is your inbox or something. Chronic stress cranks up cortisol, spikes blood sugar (even with no food on board), slows digestion, and tells your body, “Hey, let’s store some fat for that famine (that we’re definitely not in).” It also makes your metabolism as efficient as a floppy disk. (Am I aging myself?) But here’s the plot twist -- you can hack your nervous system to shift out of “fight or flight, freeze or fawn” and into “rest and digest, safe and social,” where your body actually wants to cooperate with you. And where fat is the preferred source to burn for fuel.
Enter your vagus nerve -- the MVP of calming your system. Stimulating it is like hitting the reset button on your brain and body. Start your morning with five slow, deep, nasal breaths with long exhales. Hum your favorite song while you cook. Sip warm tea and actually taste it instead of scrolling Instagram. If you’re feeling bold, finish your shower with 30 seconds of cold water. Yes, it’s awful at first, but so is the idea of living stressed forever. These all help build your resilience or tolerance to stress so that it's not so easy to slip into fight or flight as time goes on. This feels so much more calming but for those of you whole only care about things related to fat loss (I see you), you should know this is also a way to increase the amount of time you spend in fat-burning mode each day as well as the maximum fat burning potential you have each day.
Curious about the nuance about how this ties into fat loss, better energy, and finally feeling like the healthiest version of yourself? I’m diving deeper into this in my upcoming round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, starting soon. In fact, I've added a brand new learning module all about shifting your mindset forever (who ARE you with all that peace and hope?!) and nervous system regulation. I'm pretty sure it's the reason I have more returning TRANSFORMERS than usual for this round. That and the fact that returning TRANSFORMERS get 50% off. ;-)
Want a sneak peek? Hit reply and tell me your go-to stress-busting ritual. Bonus points if it’s gotten a funnier reaction than mine.
Tomorrow is the last day to sign up for this round. Only running this course 2 more times in 2025.
XO,
Tara