Miscellaneous

Easter + Passover ideas

T-minus 5 days for Easter!



And Passover will be here just a few weeks later.



With holidays, I'm a big fan of fun, family, traditions and some indulgences. For us, these indulgences might mean more sugar and treats than usual but we won't do artificial flavors, dyes and like to choose to buy or make things that are better-for-us versions of our favorites. This typically means shorter ingredient lists, but not always. Best to read through the ingredient lists. My favorite items are the ones made with the same ingredients I'd use in my kitchen if I were going to make it myself.




Our Easter baskets for the kiddos will be a combination of some treats and some small gifts (usually Spring / Summer focused like water shoes in their new sizes, sidewalk chalk or other outside activities, sports equipment / balls, t-shirt, etc.) We don't go crazy. We typically spend the whole day with family, have Easter egg hunts, and hang out outside if the weather permits.




These days, there are so many more items available to purchase that I feel comfortable with than there were when our kiddos were much younger. That's exciting because the kids enjoy having store-bought treats they can have and I know I no longer have to make everything from scratch! Phew. ;-)



Besides the kids, having indulgences for us adults that might not be packed with protein, fat and fiber but also aren't filled with ingredients that dial up inflammation and metabolic dysfunction (like artificial dyes) is important for OUR health + bodies too!



While we won't be purchasing all of these items, here is a little round-up of some ideas we'll be choosing from this year. And because high quality is almost always more pricey than low quality, it serves as a great motivator to just buy a little. Win win. :-P




Egg-coloring kit (no artificial dyes)


Chocolate date bars


PB-filled dates


Freeze-dried mango


Chocolate PB cups


Coconut chocolate bars


Truffles


Candy variety pack


Gummy bunnies


Jelly beans


Apple bites


Fruit bars


Pre-filled Easter eggs


Chocolate-covered (GF) pretzels


Hope you found this helpful! Happy Easter, Passover and all things Spring to you and your fam.



XO,
Tara



P.S. Enrollment for TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism-boosting course, opens on May 1st. Click here to learn more and hop on the waitlist if you're interested in joining us. You'll reserve your spot and get a discount code when the cart opens. ;-)

Warning: Low (Cellular) Battery?

You and me belong together like warm iced tea and warmer weather.



Have you heard this song yet? It's so fun! And also, it makes me think about us and our mitochondria. HAHA.


Mitochondria are the powerhouses or batteries of every cell in our body (except red blood cells). One of the 3 main reasons people experience any type of ailment or chronic disease like fat loss resistance, migraines, asthma, fatty liver disease, diabetes, arthritis. etc. is mitochondrial dysfunction. If you missed the 1 minute video I shared on instagram last week talking about these 3 root causes, here it is. Check out the caption where most of the info. is!


One of the main ways we can offset mitochondrial dysfunction is by being intentional about making choices that yield us mitochondrial biogenesis. This is just a fancy way of saying we can make our own new, healthy mitochondria when we know how to.


Let's talk about some nuanced factors that influence this intricate process so you can learn how to optimize your lifestyle for maximum mitochondrial mojo!

Mitochondrial biogenesis isn't a one-size-fits-all phenomenon. Rather, it's a complex interplay of various factors that dictate the health and vitality of our cellular powerhouses. From environmental influences to dietary choices and lifestyle habits, every aspect of our lives can impact mitochondrial biogenesis in unique ways.

I'm just going to list some of the key players in mitochondrial biogenesis and how they shape our cellular destiny (ahem ... and all health and fat loss goals):

  • Sunshine: Exposure to natural sunlight influences mitochondrial biogenesis by modulating circadian rhythms and reducing inflammation, ultimately supporting optimal cellular function.

  • Grounding: Practicing grounding techniques can influence mitochondrial biogenesis by connecting us with the Earth's electromagnetic field, promoting balance and cellular vitality.

  • Toxins: Environmental toxins can impair mitochondrial function and hinder biogenesis, underscoring the importance of minimizing exposure to pollutants and toxins for cellular health.

  • Processed Foods: Consumption of processed foods laden with artificial additives, flavors, dyes and processing can disrupt mitochondrial function and hinder biogenesis, emphasizing the importance of eating mostly real, whole foods for cellular health. 

  • Protein Intake: Adequate protein consumption provides the building blocks necessary for mitochondrial biogenesis, supporting the synthesis of new mitochondria and ensuring their structural integrity.

  • Movement: Physical activity stimulates mitochondrial biogenesis by activating cellular signaling pathways and promoting mitochondrial adaptation to metabolic demands.

  • Heat Exposure: Exposure to heat, such as sauna use, can stimulate mitochondrial biogenesis and enhance cellular resilience through heat shock proteins.

  • Breath Work: Practices such as deep breathing and breathwork can support mitochondrial biogenesis by optimizing cellular oxygenation and energy metabolism.

  • Blood Sugar Control: Maintaining stable blood sugar levels supports mitochondrial biogenesis by preventing oxidative stress and promoting metabolic flexibility.

  • Fiber Intake: A diet rich in fiber supports gut health, influencing mitochondrial biogenesis through the gut-microbiota-mitochondria axis.

  • Laughter: Positive emotions, including laughter, have been linked to improved mitochondrial function and overall well-being, highlighting the importance of mental and emotional health for cellular vitality.

  • Sex: Hormonal fluctuations associated with intimacy and sexual activity can impact mitochondrial biogenesis and energy metabolism, highlighting the interconnectedness of physical and sexual health.

  • Circadian Rhythm: Adherence to a consistent circadian rhythm supports mitochondrial biogenesis and cellular repair processes, optimizing overall health + vitality.

  • Inflammation: Chronic inflammation can disrupt mitochondrial function and impair biogenesis, emphasizing the importance of mitigating inflammation through diet and lifestyle choices.

  • EMF Exposure: Excessive exposure to electromagnetic fields (EMFs) can disrupt mitochondrial function and hinder biogenesis, underscoring the importance of minimizing EMF exposure for cellular health.

  • Brain Challenges + Novelty: Engaging in cognitive activities and challenging the brain supports mitochondrial biogenesis and cognitive function, promoting overall brain health and vitality.

  • Supplements: Certain supplements, such as Coenzyme Q10, Alpha-Lipoic Acid, and Nicotinamide Riboside, have shown promise in supporting mitochondrial biogenesis and enhancing mitochondrial function. I'm not suggesting you take these! Check with your healthcare provider. Supplements should be highly individualized.

  • Hydration: Adequate hydration is essential for cellular health and mitochondrial function. 

  • Sleep Quality: Quality sleep is crucial for mitochondrial repair and regeneration. 

  • Mindfulness Practices: Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and yoga, can support mitochondrial health by reducing stress levels and promoting overall well-being. 

  • Social Connections: Strong social connections and meaningful relationships have been linked to improved health outcomes and longevity. 

  • Environmental Exposure: Beyond toxins and EMF exposure, consider other environmental factors that may impact mitochondrial health, such as air quality and exposure to pollutants. 

  • Intermittent Fasting: Intermittent fasting has been shown to promote mitochondrial biogenesis and improve mitochondrial function. Fasting approaches should be tailored to you as an individual.

  • Photobiomodulation: Light (and darkness), wavelengths and light angle all impact mitochondria density, health and biogenesis.



Mitochondrial biogenesis is a dynamic process influenced by a myriad of factors spanning from lifestyle choices to environmental exposures. Some of these factors are not fully in our control, but most factors absolutely ARE in our control at least a bit and are worth exploring. One big reason my 28-day metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, works so well is because we take action in the areas of mitochondrial health, chronic inflammation reduction and oxidative stress reduction. The March round started yesterday! I'm so excited to hear all of the wins that come from this new group of people who are changing their lives. <3 



While the next round of the course won't be until May, the waitlist is currently open for it. Hop on if you'd like to stay in the know and be notified of any special offers, discount codes ;-) and when enrollment begins.


If you need or want individualized help, here's some more information about 1:1 coaching.


Wishing you and your mitochondria a powerful day,
Tara

FIVE books you need on your shelf

I will never declutter my bookshelf.





Ok, I mean occasionally I might donate or giveaway some books but it's just not going to be a category I can be "minimal" in. I love books. Audiobooks are great and make a lot of sense for commutes and walks but there's just something about an actual book with its smell and page-turning rituals and ....




Anyway, here are some (in no particular order) I've enjoyed a ton in recent months or years that I'd venture to say will be life-changing for you. (And no, I'm not being asked or paid to say this. HAHA!)


1. Lifespan: Why we age and why we don't have to by David Sinclair

He talks about how aging itself can be considered a disease and what's currently going on behind the scenes in the research world. The first country to boldly declare aging a disease will benefit from a flock of researchers that will travel there because "diseases" get a ton of grant money. 

2. Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity by Peter Attia

What really is causing almost all non-accident related deaths, what can we do about it, how do we measure if what we're doing is working?

3. A Healthier Home: The Room-by-Room Guide to Make Any Space A Little Less Toxic by Shawna Holman

If you're on a journey to reduce toxins in various rooms and areas of your life, this reference book is incredible! Not meant to be read all the way through, but to be skipped around, dog-eared and really USE, it's full of goodness (and many, many money-saving, DIY ideas)

4. Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor

Your mind will be blown by how tied our breathing is to so many ailments: energy, metabolism, illness, crooked teeth, brain fog, cavities, kids' bed wetting, etc. If you're on a breathwork kick or want to be but haven't been motivated enough to start a practice yet, this is the book for you.

5. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success -- How we learn to fulfill our potential by Carol Dwek

Everything has potential to be improved, including whether or not we think that everything has potential to be improved. Be ready to think about thinking in a whole new way and watch how it integrates into all areas of your life.



Happy reading,
Tara



P.S. The cart opens tomorrow for the March round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind -- my 28-day metabolism-boosting course! I'll be sending you a couple of emails while enrollment is open in case you'd like to join us. Then it'll be back to random health, fitness, nutrition fat loss, mindset, longevity business as usual after that. ;-) I really appreciate you being here and part of this community! 

50 FREE tools for health optimization

Getting started (or restarted)



I love to share (and get asked often) about tools and products I use. Sauna, cold plunge, red light therapy device, exercise equipment, protein powders, supplements ... These things can be great, convenient, helpful but are usually not necessary and certainly not as effective unless they are first layered on top of some foundations (most of which are free or low cost).



So I'll keep sharing about those special tools from time to time in case it helps, but I'll also make sure I continue to share about the FREE things we have available to us that might make even more of a difference on your health, mood, body composition goals and energy levels.



Whether you'd call yourself a beginner to this whole health thing, intermediate, advanced, a dabbler, confused, or you've lost your way recently and could use some guidance in coming back home to YOU, below are some ideas. They each have their own ways they can shift our day or life and improve our physical, mental and emotional health. Take what you want, leave what you don't like or don't need right now. This is your journey and you get to advocate for yourself. <3


  1. Walk

  2. Stretch

  3. Strength train using whatever you already have (body weight, bands, dumbbells)

  4. Short sprints (run, bike, swim, rollerskate, hill repeats)

  5. Steady state cardio (jog, swim, bike, rollerskate, rower)

  6. Hike / nature walk

  7. Five or more minutes outside a day

  8. Get your grounding / Earthing in

  9. Plan, manage or start a garden

  10. Call a friend

  11. Find or connect with a community that means something to you

  12. Laugh on purpose (look up jokes, watch a comedian on TV or the internet, hang with your funny friend)

  13. Hug someone you love

  14. Sexual intimacy (partnered or solo)

  15. Breathwork

  16. Meditation

  17. Journaling

  18. Take a relaxing bath

  19. Drink more water

  20. Declutter a drawer or corner

  21. Affirmations

  22. Add something joyful to your day or calendar

  23. Learn a language on Duolingo

  24. Teach yourself something using Youtube

  25. Set boundaries clearly + kindly and follow through

  26. Read a book you already have

  27. Cold exposure using your environment or shower / bathtub

  28. Have a no complaining allowed day and take note of how high you felt all day as your brain was left searching for the positives. Same day. Same life. Same stressors. Totally different perspective.

  29. Aim to stay present (it's a practice I believe we ALL will need to practice forever without ever mastering. Challenge accepted!)

  30. Gratitude

  31. Board, card, dice or conversation starter games with family / friends

  32. Happy lists ... dream about future possibilities if anything was possible (it is) and write it out

  33. Music - listen or play

  34. Volunteer

  35. Sing or hum

  36. Cook a meal

  37. Bake something using real food ingredients

  38. Open the blinds (and windows in home, car)

  39. Sleep

  40. Turn down the heat at night so you sleep better

  41. BELIEVE that your body is capable of amazing things and if you don't yet feel that deep in your core, do the hard work until you do

  42. Decrease stress by remembering you cannot control other people (even your kids), events, the weather, etc. but you CAN control your thought patterns, behaviors, habits, way you respond to everything. And that amount of control can change your entire existence when you embrace it.

  43. Refuse to be sedentary. Even if you exercise, do not sit for many hours straight. Get up. Walk around. Makeshift standing desk. Ask work to cover a treadmill desk. Stretch while watching TV. Walking meetings. EVERYONE is trying to move more. If you lead the way, you'll probably be helping someone else feel brave enough to do the same.

  44. Give yourself 12 hours of fasting overnight.

  45. No food, alcohol or calorie-containing beverages 3 hours before bed.

  46. On that note ... work towards no alcohol, less frequent alcohol and / or less alcohol per sitting.

  47. Eat protein, fat and fiber in every meal. Most of us can skip some take out, restaurant meals or junky snacks or alcohol so focusing on PFF is NO extra cost or maybe even a savings.

  48. Get unscented everything. Skip the perfume, cologne and scented candles / laundry detergent / hair products.

  49. Dance in your kitchen. I could swear it's medicine.

  50. Do something that makes you sweat at least a few times a week (no sauna access? Take a HOT bath, go for a sweaty run, do yard work)



If you're feeling inspired, grab something from the list and do it today!



XO,
Tara



P.S. If you're looking for a much deeper dive on health optimization, fat loss, muscle building, keep in mind the waitlist is open for the March round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind -- my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. Sign ups begin in 3 weeks!

Benefits of grounding

Have you touched the Earth today?




Some of you are all about and others are ... skeptical. Why am I always talking about grounding up in my instagram stories? Why do we spend time talking about it in TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism-boosting course? Does it really affect metabolism?



Let's chat.



Grounding (or "Earthing") is the practice of coming in contact with the Earth in a way that allows our body to be altered electrically.
In a nutshell, we tend to accumulate more positive ions through regular living, inflammation, etc. When we are mindful about grounding regularly, we are exchanging some of those positive ions for some negative ones (electrons). We then use these electrons in the Electron Transport Chain to 'power up' our body's own power plant, if you will. 


In other words, these electrons help charge up / fuel the parts of our cells that can then create energy and fuel up the rest of our body. Grounding can:

  • reduce inflammation

  • improve disease

  • improve cardiac health and help prevent atherosclerosis

  • increase energy levels

  • improve mood

  • expedite healing + recovery

  • improve fat oxidation

  • boost metabolic rate

  • improve metabolic flexibility

  • and more



Just like with all of the things I share, it's not magic. It's not like you can walk outside barefoot and you'll be healed and lose all the extra body fat. Wouldn't that be amazing? It's just another tool to have in your toolbox. Really, it was a tool we used to have in our toolbox that was removed when we started doing things like live in weather-proof and safe structures and now we just have to be intentional about getting back to.


"How often? How long?"


More often. And longer. We really don't have protocols yet. Our natural state has always been to be outdoors for so much of our day, that it didn't require effort to ground. It was just what we did. In modern society, we can easily go entire days or even weeks without grounding if we're not careful. So at this time my own personal goal is to make sure I am grounding daily ... even if just for a few minutes. When possible, longer and more often. I do this even in Winter but definitely get a lot more grounding time in in Spring, Summer and Fall.



What counts as grounding?



This is the fun part!


  • Swimming or wading in the ocean, lake, river, creek

  • Walking barefoot on the grass, sand, dirt

  • Barefoot on concrete, cement, pavers count too, if there isn't a vapor / moisture barrier underneath

  • Lie down or sit on grass or sand

  • Gardening with bare hands

  • Picking weeds

  • Touching puddles, having a snowball fight, building sandcastles with your kids or grandkids

  • Taking a bath or sitting in a hot tub with metal pipes

  • Earthing sheet or Earthing mat

  • Climb a tree



Bonus points for grounding AFTER a lightening storm as the ground is extra full of electrons then. Be safe and make sure the storm has definitely passed before doing that, mmmkay?



Sunlight and red light / infrared light therapy *can* count as grounding too ... it just requires an additional step using fatty acids to convert the light energy to electrons (slightly different but not completely dissimilar to the way solar panels turn sunlight into electricity).



Quick aside... if you've been eying the Lumebox for red light / infrared light therapy, this special link saves you 45% only through February 4th. The company emailed me to say the price will be going up after that. The discount will not show up until you add to cart. Then you'll see it's $349 for the next 5 days.



"Can we ground with socks on?" Your socks are only conductive if there is some sweat on them. So, possible but barefoot is a better bet.



Shoes? 99.99% of the time no, but there is a company making barefoot sneakers with wide toe boxes AND grounding technology. I've been looking into them and just want to hold off on giving the details until I do my due diligence but it's an exciting idea nonetheless.



One more thing grounding can do is make you gain the "weird / interesting neighbor" label as you start doing everything barefoot. You're welcome! ;-)



Hope you found this helpful!



XO,
Tara

Some of my random 2024 intentions

Just in case you are easing into this New Year and still thinking about how you want to set up your days, weeks, and mindset...




...I figured I'd share some of my intentions with you. Most of these have been intentions for many years and I'd like to keep them in. Some of them are newer. Do we have any in common?




I'm listing in a bit of a brain dump kinda way:


  • LISS (low intensity steady state cardio)

  • HIIT (high intensity interval training)

  • MISS (medium intensity steady state cardio)

  • Strength training

  • Sauna

  • Cold exposure

  • Walks or dance parties

  • Sunshine

  • Lumebox

  • Dry brush

  • Declutter

  • Pour into relationships

  • Cooking

  • Baking

  • House projects

  • Read / learn daily

  • Business growth w/ improved systems

  • Stretch / mobility

  • House vibes: peace, fun, connection, playfulness, support, unconditional love, leadership, responsibility, relaxation, open-ended conversation, everything is figureoutable

  • Sing, hum

  • Music (listen, make)

  • Create - draw, paint, write

  • Celebrate - a bunch of milestone birthdays for my people this year

  • Financial growth, investment

  • Indoor garden and outdoor garden

  • Sleep

  • Hobbies + fun - snowboard, ice skate, boogie board, jet ski, rock climb, live music, date nights, comedians, friends, family

  • Minimal nighttime artificial light

  • Romanticize more of the small moments

  • Monthly self assessments

  • Weekly digital declutter session (photos, videos, email)

  • Grounding daily

  • Take more days off (Have worked 364 days in the past many years taking only Christmas off completely. That has to change).

  • Love my people in THEIR love language more

  •  Volunteer projects / donate - kids involved where appropriate

  • Start that big new work project

  • Change lives through my course and coaching

  • Alcohol less than 1 drink per week

  • 'Buckets' I plan to focus on: health, marriage, motherhood, 'housekeeping / homesteading', hobbies / personal, business, finance, social / give back

  • Flexibility + ebb and flow ... nothing here is forced, just highly valued.





Hope it's been a great start to 2024 for you so far!



XO,
Tara



P.S. Today is the last day to join the January round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. If you have any health or body composition goals for this year, get ready to do something WILDLY different to get to the root of the issue(s). More information and sign up link here.

Busting health + dieting myths

'Tis the season for ... all the diet marketing nonsense!



I love me a great festive theme, so let's debunk a bunch of health myths today, shall we??



Myth #1: Coffee works for breakfast.
Actually ... coffee on an empty stomach can raise cortisol levels, increase belly fat storage, lead to undereating during the daytime and overeating at nighttime or on weekends, lower metabolism and spike blood sugar.


Myth #2: You should keep cutting calories back (beyond a reasonable amount).
Actually ... this will lower metabolic rate, lead to muscle loss and increase risk of disease in the future.


Myth #3: You need to workout more, longer, harder.
Actually ... Exercise is great and I'm a big fan, but those who think they need to increase it endlessly until they "see results" tend to dial up inflammation and risk injury -- both of which can backfire.


Myth #4: Eat 6 mini meals a day for metabolism
Actually ... this doesn't improve metabolism and can hinder it because of the way insulin is kept elevated. This promotes more fat storage, not less.


Myth #5: You should weigh yourself daily.
Please don't! Unless you have NO emotional connection to the number at all (not happy when it's down, not upset when it's up). Otherwise, you'll be manufacturing extra frustration + defeat and we don't make the choices we want to from those emotional states.


Myth #6: Weight loss is good, weight gain is bad.
Actually ... it's much more important to think about the kind of weight you want to gain, lose and / or maintain. Most people want to either gain or maintain muscle and either lose or maintain fat. This requires a very specific way of doing things. Your garden variety diets, cleanses, bootcamps, etc. -- even if they take weight off -- likely won't be enough of the kind of weight you're looking to lose.


Myth #7: Save calories during the day so you can eat more when you go out to dinner or to that party.
Actually ... undereating during mealtimes can lower metabolic rate, have you losing precious muscle, and increase cravings, hunger and the feeling of being 'out of control' around food later.


Myth #8: The sun is bad for us.
Actually ... the sun is very healing! Too much of a good thing isn't a good thing, of course, so we don't want to burn. But we get red light and infrared light around sunrise + sunset. The sun helps us set our circadian rhythm, improves mood, energy, digestion, blood sugar management. And the blue light we get during the middle of the day is important for other things like hormones and vitamin D.


Myth #9: Carbs are bad.
Actually ... we all use carbs. We either eat too much and store them as fat after they spike our blood sugar and cause some damage, eat a moderate amount to match our needs, or eat too few and our body will make what we need then through a process called gluconeogenesis. Eating a moderate amount is helpful for fat loss goals, thyroid health, moods, sleep, energy and performance.


Myth #10: Walking is enough for exercise.
Actually... walking is GREAT for us and if that's all you can do right now, PLEASE do it! For those who are looking to improve their health or have body composition goals and are able to, I recommend keeping walking in for movement or even cardio if it's a fast enough pace to leave you slightly out of breath. But strength training is a separate category and we all benefit from ensuring that's included in our days and weeks, no matter your age or level (as long as its not contraindicated for YOU).


Myth #11: 2 eggs is a high-protein meal.
Actually ... 2 eggs is only 12g of protein. That's something(!) but not enough for a meal. I recommend most people get 20-40+g of protein with each meal. Since that amount of eggs would likely also contain a lot more fat than you need in a meal, you could consider adding an additional source of protein alongside the 2 eggs ... some meat, egg whites mixed in, etc.


Myth #12: Muscle makes you bulky.
Actually ... muscle takes up less space, pound for pound, than body fat does. Meaning, you can increase your scale weight but be putting on muscle and taking off fat and your measurements (like waist circumference) would actually be going down.


Myth #13: The cold weather makes us sick.
Actually ... we are outside less, get less vitamin D, spend more time indoors around more people and germs, and tend to have more food, sugar and alcohol this time of year. More germ exposure + weakened immune system makes us sick. Cold exposure ... when done gradually and intentionally ... improves our immune system.


Myth #14: Fevers are bad.
Actually ... fevers are genius and I aim not to interfere if my body or my kiddos' bodies have created a fever. Of course I'm vigilant to make sure it doesn't become dangerously high or rise so quickly it can cause febrile seizures, but otherwise we welcome and celebrate fevers. In fact, we try to remember that runny noses, vomiting, diarrhea, coughs, post-nasal drips are all genius too. These are not the germs' doing, but rather our body rounding the troops to help fight off and get rid of the germs.



I'm sure I missed a bunch of common myths, but I'm not trying to write a novel today for you. :-P



If you're ready to do things WILDLY different in 2024, you should know that sometime later today the waitlist for TRANSFORM: Body + Mind -- my 28-day metabolism-boosting course -- will be pulled down. So, this is your last chance to hop on! Enrollment for the January round will begin tomorrow. Those on the waitlist will get a discount code sent tomorrow when the cart opens. Join us!



XO,

2023 Holiday Gift Guide

I stayed up 'til 11:15 working on this one night last week because...




I asked you guys in my instagram stories if it would be helpful and there was a shocking amount of YES PLEASE feedback.




I created the 2023 Holiday Gift Guide for anyone on your list who is health-forward with goals like fat loss, muscle-building, longevity, healing, thriving, sports or gym performance or just healthy family / kiddos. It also works well if people are asking YOU for suggestions on what to get you for the holidays and you are having trouble coming up with anything.



I wanted to be inclusive of all budgets, so there are items that are free, $6, hundreds of dollars and every price range in between.



Oh, and because experiences are a big thing for us, I made sure to include whole section on those.



Hope you enjoy!



GRAB YOUR FREE COPY RIGHT HERE.



Happy Thanksgiving week,
Tara



P.S. Today is the LAST day to take advantage of my pre-Black Friday deal for TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. The cart will close at midnight and everyone who got in in time will get access to the whole course + all the materials tomorrow. You can browse through everything over the next few weeks or fully dive in and get started early. Up to you! Since we don't officially begin until January, I will also be hosting a bonus, live Q+A session in December just for those who got the pre-Black Friday deal so you can ask whatever questions have come up thus far. If you can't make it live, I'll be sending you the replay. 


This course is for those who have fat loss, muscle-building or "toning up" goals and who want to learn how to achieve those goals in a WILDY different way -- by boosting metabolism instead of dieting. This approach is for those who also want to improve their relationship with food and their body (no counting calories or tracking macros) and work on improving their health, healing and longevity focus all the while.


Want to grab the pre-Black Friday deal and get access tomorrow too? CLICK HERE for more info. and to sign up.

How much body fat can you lose in 1 day?

Daily fat loss has an upper limit.



So what happens, then, if your caloric deficit is greater than the amount of fat you can lose in a day?



Are you sure you wanna know? It's not good.



Last chance to close this email and be none-the-wiser.



Ok, you got it ....



What happens is you lose lean (non-fat) tissue. You lose muscle, bone density, mitochondria. Your organs shrink. You lose brain mass. Say goodbye to some of your collagen.



The law of thermodynamics is strong with us. Eat less than you use up and you'll lose. Eat more than you use up and you'll gain. But that used to be where it ended. Now we know there's nuance. WHAT, exactly, are you losing? WHAT, exactly, are you gaining? 



Most people lose a mixed bag (some fat but lots of muscle and other lean tissue) but when they gain some or all of it back, it's almost entirely fat. This is usually NOT the desired intent or even something they were aware of!



So how much fat can you actually lose each day???



It depends. It depends on your size and current body composition / body fat percentage. It depends also on whether or not you're maximizing fat loss potential through all the things I talk about here in my weekly newsletters and over on instagram. For example, someone who has better blood sugar balance will be able to maximize daily fat loss potential, moreso than someone whose blood sugar is riddled with spikes and crashes. They are more of a "fat burner". Similarly, someone who is barely getting any sleep and not working on stress management will be more of a "sugar / carb burner" and will tend to lose a greater percentage of their weight as lean mass rather than excess body fat.



But I can tell you this ... it's not a lot and probably less than you'd like. That means the process should be slow. If it's fast, you're likely losing lots of precious lean mass (like muscle) and will be actually priming your body for a greater body fat percentage over time. 


So, fast weight loss isn't just not advised. It's not the fat loss that most people think they're getting! And it sets our body up for MORE fat gain and worsened metabolic health (chronic diseases) down the line.



To give some more context, if you're losing 5 lbs in a week or something, you're almost definitely blowing wayyyy past your maximum daily fat loss and burning through precious lean mass. Even less (2, 3, 4 lbs a week) can be problematic. Too fast and that's where damage is done.



Little caveat ... sometimes, especially in the beginning of some lifestyle changes, inflammatory water retention starts to go away. In this case the pounds might come off faster as a result of that process. That's not a problem and will be temporary.



Example: Person A has fast weight loss. Person B has slow weight loss (with attention to detail like strength training, protein, sleep, blood sugar control). Person B is almost always losing MORE fat than Person A, even though society will tell you otherwise. *Eye roll*


If fat loss is a goal of yours, keep this in mind!



XO,
Tara




P.S. This Friday will start the Early Black Friday deal for TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. We cover all the bases (nutrition, fitness, lifestyle) that will help you maximize your daily fat loss potential as well as focus on health optimization so you feel incredible all the while. <3  Enrollment will be open for just a few days because on actual Black Friday I will be decorating my house with the fam and making our traditional Christmas loops. So, I'm closing the cart before Thanksgiving. ;-) Here's how it'll work: if you enroll between 11/17 and 11/21, you'll be in for the upcoming January round. But not only that, you'll get early access to the whole course and all the materials on 11/22. You can check it out or even start early if you'd like! Make sure you're on the waitlist if you're interested. Waitlist people will get a discount code sent to them when the cart opens.

Stress Eating?

Has this ever happened to you?





You had a long day at work or at home and 5 PM rolls around. You're hungry, tired, stressed and still not sure what you're making for dinner. So, you mindlessly eat the opened bag of pita chips that are sitting on your counter b/c ... pita chips aren't so bad, are they?



And / or you pour yourself a glass of wine to sip on while you try to pull together a meal from whatever random ingredients you have in the fridge.



And / or you grab the pretzels but quickly move over to a pint of ice cream at 9 PM when you finally sit down on the couch to turn the TV on and your brain off.



This, my friend, is stress eating or emotional eating and it's superrrrr common. We have all done it at least occasionally and we are actually hard-wired to have this type of relationship with food. Because if we eat when we're stressed, we get a temporary bump in the pleasure molecules inside our brain. This makes sense! From a survival standpoint, we would have wanted to store extra body fat during times of stress to have a reserve for whatever might be coming.



But if you have current fat loss and / or health and longevity goals, repeating this pattern fairly often will get in the way of you reaching those goals.



What can you do?



Start by understanding your biology! The extra food is a form of self-medicating. It makes you feel good in the moment, but probably not so much afterwards, right? Bloating, cravings, excess hunger later or the next day, feeling out of control, not accomplishing goals ... not awesome.



Instead, pre-plan some options for ways to "self medicate" that help you feel better right then and there AND later. Excess food won't be it.



Eat a satiating, balanced meal. You might actually be hungry! Fill your body with what it wants and can use well. Protein, fat and fiber. You'll likely feel better right then AND later.


Take a walk. Maybe call a friend or family member to catch up with too, or just grab any and all family members to join. That'll make you feel better right then AND later.


Put on some music, take a few deep breaths, have some herbal tea. Better right then AND later.


It's not that you'll never stress / emotional / overeat again. But if you can cut it back drastically, what do you think that would do for you and your goals? How about your confidence?


Next time you're ready to mindlessly eat or drink, ask yourself what you need and what you can do that'll make you feel good both right then AND later. That's the definition of true self care. It feels good in the moment and still feels good later on.


You got this!


XO,
Tara


P.S. The Early Black Friday deal will start November 17th! The cart will be open for just a few days to enroll for the January round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. If you get in for this deal, you'll get access to the whole course and all the materials the day before Thanksgiving. You can dive in anytime and have a nice, big head-start before we officially begin together as a group in January. Make sure you're on the waitlist! The waitlist will get you a discount code. ;-)



P.P.S. If you need some more customization, accountability, hand-holding because of unique medical situations or you just know yourself well and this is how you work best, check out my 1:1 coaching program.

If I wanted to lose excess body fat before the end of the year, here are 4 things I'd start right now

No one waits around until January 1st to set goals anymore, right?




I really love that we're embracing the fact that we can upgrade anything we want about ourselves at any time. With the holidays getting kicked off a week from today with Halloween, it's the perfect time of year to begin to make a change. It's empowering to go off script a bit plus you can make progress on your goals while reducing cravings ... which comes in very handy around your kids' Halloween haul, during Thanksgiving dessert or that Wednesday night holiday party in December.



I have no current fat loss goals but if I did, here are 4 things I'd start doing right away:


  1. I'd skip the calorie obsession because it leads to overeating. When we pick meals based on them having a lower calorie count, we are not getting enough of the nutrients that actually turn off our hunger. Therefore, whether later that afternoon or night or a handful of days later on the weekend, we will end up overeating. Instead, I'd be ensuring that I was getting enough -- protein, fat and fiber -- at each meal. I'd want this to be at least 20-30g protein, 10-20g fat and 5-15g fiber per meal (3 meals a day ... maybe with an afternoon snack too). This would make me feel nice + satiated and stop the food obsession, cravings, endless hunger and overeating episodes that feel like a willpower issue but are really just a biological issue.

  2. I'd make sure my workouts weren't non-existent, mostly cardio, random, or being phoned in. The way muscle mass helps us have so much more flexibility with our nutrition isn't being talked about enough! More muscle means better blood sugar balance, extra fat burning 24/7 (yes, even when being a sloth on the cough or sleeping), and a higher carbohydrate tolerance. More muscle improves both health and body composition goals. I'd do this by strength training 3-4 days a week, following a comprehensive plan that gets all muscle groups, repeating that same suite of workouts each week for 8-16 weeks or so (not randomly switching it up) and making sure the last few reps of each set feels hard to complete. And then I'd progressively overload by increasing something (reps, sets, resistance) over time. Cardio is great for health, but I would not prioritize that for fat loss goals.

  3. I would indulge with intention. I wouldn't swear off any foods for fear of messing up my progress, but I would also have a serious convo with myself about the truth about my indulgences. Am I saying I don't indulge often but when I go out to eat I have a burger with both buns, fries, and a drink? Or some bread from the bread basket, pasta with my entree and a little dessert? Hot cocoa season is coming up. And cookies. And pie. How much alcohol am I drinking on the weekends? And weekdays? Do I indulge at every party, date night, event, holiday...? Once I had that hard convo with myself about my indulgences, I'd then make sure I kept my favorites in while reining things in a bit. It's not deprivation if you're choosing what you want most over what you want right now. It's just a choice and you get to make whichever one you want in each situation.

  4. Movement. Knowing 15% (sometimes more!) of our metabolic rate is based on how much we're moving outside of workout time, I'd get creative about how to start moving more. Can I ask my employer for a standing desk or just doctor one up myself by stacking my laptop on a bunch of books? Can I take that call or meeting on a walk? Can I sit on the floor and stretch while watching TV instead of sinking into the couch? Can I plan to walk each morning or lunch break? And if the weather is bad, what's my backup plan? Maybe one of those walking pads or under-desk bikes? Can I plan some family fun on weekends that involves being active ... like a hike, playground games, or after dinner walk or bike ride with whoever wants to join? If fat loss was a goal, I'd definitely not skip out on this and make my metabolic rate 15% slower as a result.




What else? Well if you need some more help, you might be interested to know I'll be briefly opening up early enrollment for the January round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind around Black Friday. This will come with early access so you will have the whole course and all the materials to be able to utilize all of it starting in November!



If you have some diagnoses you believe are making your fat loss goals trickier or could use some customization or extra accountability, 1:1 coaching might be more your flavor.



Oh and if fat loss isn't one of your goals, that list is still a great one if you "just" care about longevity and optimal health. ;-)



XO,
Tara

Ever lose + regain the same 20 lbs?

Losing and regaining the same 5, 10, 20, 50 lbs over and over isn't fun.




But ya know what's worse? Realizing that the weight you lose and the weight you regain aren't actually equal. Most weight loss efforts are done in a way that includes lots of muscle lost alongside any fat. Oftentimes organs shrink during this unhealthy kind of weight loss too. Yikes! Yet when that weight is regained, it's typically almost entirely excess body fat gained. Rinse + repeat and you can see how you end up with a higher body fat percentage over time, even if the weight yoyos within a certain range. This can be a big problem for metabolic health and body goals. But there's also a way around this problem so you never have to deal with that again!



It's a big topic, so I recorded a video just for you for this week. You can listen like a podcast if that's easier ... no need to see my mug the whole time. ;-) Check it out right here.



As I mention at the end of the video, if you'd like to get help / support / guidance and an actual freaking plan that aligns with your goals thankyouveerymuch, feel free to check out more about my 28-daya metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind and 1:1 coaching.



XO,
Tara

Underactive thyroid?

I used to have hypothyroidism.




... alongside PCOS, insulin resistance and prediabetes. Basically, I was a metabolic wreck and my doctor let me know he expected me to have an unhealthy body composition for life because of all of this. Thankfully, I believed in my own body's ability to heal + evolve and said, "Hold my beer." as I got to work. P.S. I no longer have any of those conditions and he was quite shocked and wanted to know how I did it all without meds. He meant well but just wasn't even aware of our potential!



I'm actually not writing this newsletter to tell you about my backstory, but I did want to let you know I've had some experience here. Someone on instagram recently asked me if I had 'regular' hypothyroidism or Hashimoto's -- the auto-immune kind. I told her I wasn't entirely sure because I didn't know enough to advocate for myself back then and my thyroid antibodies weren't tested at the time of my diagnosis. But the cool thing is that it didn't matter a whole lot. I did the same things to aim to get to the bottom of it, regardless of what was causing the hypothyroidism. Namely, 1, I aimed to increase my metabolic rate and health (this directly influences thyroid output) and 2, aimed to decrease inflammation and oxidative stress (which would be incredibly important when there's any kind of autoimmunity).



Last week I created a highlight just for thyroid health -- a series of posts and reels -- in response to the increase in questions I've been getting (mostly from new followers who are hearing about my story for the first time). In that highlight, I discuss what I did and why, lab work to consider requesting, nutritional additions that have helped, protocols and things most docs don't know about yet and therefore aren't sharing yet. Since subclinical thyroid function is incredibly common at this time, I wanted to share with you too! Click that link above and you may have to scroll my highlight bubbles, but it'll be there! It's labeled "thyroid".




Whether or not you have an under-active thyroid, I think this reminder is always helpful: our body tends to do SO WELL when we give it what it needs and then get the heck out of its way. If you're on some kind of a healing journey, you're doing incredibly important work! Keep going. <3



XO,
Tara



P.S. If you'd like some help, here are a couple of ways we can work together:



1. My 28-day metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind. We work on boosting metabolism (helping to rev up that thyroid) as well as aim to bring down inflammation + oxidative stress (potentially helping auto-immunity). Best part is that while I guide you on what to do and how, I also teach you about your body, metabolism and health optimization so that you can make informed choices for yourself going forward. The next round isn't starting until January, but there will be an opportunity to get early access around Black Friday if you're on this waitlist. ;-)



2. I do work with some clients 1:1. This is much more in depth with tons of customization and accountability. Spots are limited, but clients are often graduating out of the program, opening up spots so hop on the interested list if you'd like to chat more about this option.

Fat loss: A learning series

You're a real catch... and I appreciate the heck out of you.




Just wrapped up another super-exciting launch at Tara Allen Health. One thing I typically do when I'm in 'launch mode' for that one week, several times a year is I tend to do more live videos on social media. My goals with this are 1, to share more context about what I do in the course and why I do it so differently. 2, I'm more present for those who have questions. And 3, I want to make sure that even if you and I never get to work together, you still have lots of actionable tips to implement on your own. If you're a TRANSFORM alum, these lives might serve as good reminders for you as well. ;-)



But maybe you missed them? So I wanted to drop them here in a blog this week. Feel free to select just the topics that sound interesting to you or listen to them all in order as a learning series. You don't need to stare at my face! Haha. Pop in some headphones and take me along on a walk, while you're doing housework or even just listen on your commute.



Only thing is ... all the talk about enrollment for TRANSFORM: Body + Mind being open is no longer applicable. Cart closed last week and we actually began yesterday. The next round will be in January though so don't feel like you missed out. You can now hop on the waitlist for that round if you'd like.



Ok, here we go ...


Episode 1. Is there more to the fat loss story than "eat less, exercise more"?

Episode 2. 6 things you're doing for weight loss that are backfiring

Episode 3. Fat loss goal of less than 10 lbs? Or want to “tone up”? Discussing 8 things specific to YOUR goals to keep in mind.

Episode 4. Fat loss goal of 10 lbs or more? Sharing 7 tips specific for you.

Episode 5. 7 reasons you’re giving yourself cravings and what to do about it.

Episode 6. The biggest mistake the weight loss industry is still making!


Hope this helps!


XO,
Tara

Sick Season, 2023

Back to school time is usually the marker of the beginning of "sick season" or "cold and flu" season.




To some extent it's normal, all the sickness. We're humans. I believe there's likely also still a bit of catch-up happening too as a result of some of the protocols and practices that have been in place the past few years as well. So if you, your kids, or everyone seems to start getting sick even more than usual, it makes a lot of sense.


Here's how viruses work ... you get sick, you build some immunity (an army of soldiers ready to fight that particular germ, as I tell our kids). In most cases, you will have repeated passing exposures to that germ that will remind your "army" to stay strong. This could be that you have Influenza A, get sick, get better, and then walk past someone in the grocery store a month later who is contagious with Influenza A and get a brief exposure. You don't get sick that time, but that brief exposure keeps that very specific germ-army on alert. However, if you get Influenza A, get sick, get better, and then never meet another Influenza germ again for years, you can bet that the next time you DO come in contact with it, you'll get sick again b/c each germ-specific army only stays strong for as long as it thinks it needs to before it dismantles. (A bit ... I'm simplifying this whole process a little so you're not reading a biology textbook when you just want tips on a healthy immune system).



Ok, so if you or your loved ones are getting sick more frequently than normal, it could be because most of us had less 'germ exposures' in general over the past couple of years than usual and most of of our armies are weaker than they'd normally be.


Or, it could be that your immune system is in need of a a little TLC. Or maybe both.



Regardless, remember that we are meant to get sick sometimes. It's a chance to reset and re-evaluate things. And even though it sucks or is at least inconvenient, our bodies usually fight the germs off without us even having to micromanage. Pretty freaking incredible.


The beautiful thing is the "plan" I follow to keep my immune system boosted overlaps a whole lot with what I do for metabolic health. When we dive DEEP into how to achieve your fat loss or "toning up" goals in TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, the approach is through improving our health all around ... including immunity! Isn't that so awesome? The protocols that will get you your "body goals" will be the same protocols as a "longevity" or "health" plan, if you know what you're doing. ;-) If you're signed up for TRANSFORM this round (cart closes tomorrow!), you will absolutely know what you're doing.



Here are a few of my sick season staples:

  • When feeling great or otherwise, we wash our hands with fragrance-free soap and water, no Purell or anti-bacterial soap. Rather than mess with our skin's barrier / microbiome and make our immune system weaker, I prefer to keep that intact. Soap acts to lift germs off of the skin and the friction of rubbing our hands under the water will wash them away without being too harsh.

 

  • Nasal breathing. Our nose humidifies and filters germs out of the air we breathe before it gets to our lungs. Our mouth does no such thing. The more you breathe through your mouth, the more opportunity you give the germs to invade and take over. Many people are nasal breathers during the day but mouth breathers at night. This is where mouth-taping would be something to consider.

 

  • Sleep! Our immune system function drops pretty dramatically even after 1 night of poor sleep. I know we can't get great sleep every single night, but most of us can do better in this category.

 

  • Resilience. Heat + cold exposure throughout the year helps our body build up resilience. The cold of winter is less of a shock if we have been priming it for cold with intentional exposures a few times a week. Skip this when sleep is low, stress is high, or you're already under the weather.

 

  • Stress. Cortisol is released when we are stressed and while it's not a bad thing, it does become problematic when it's elevated too high or too often. It will cause insulin resistance and lower your immunity. We have less control over how much stress we are exposed to (though definitely some control there!), and much more over how we train ourselves to deal with it. Just having a regular practice of journaling, meditating, gratitude, spiritual practice, and working on emotional management can be life-changing. Also, consider whether you're causing excess physical stress with fasts that are longer than your body can healthfully handle, overexercising, too much coffee, or under-eating. These things will all jack up cortisol and lower your immune response.

 

  • Nutrition. If you're eating a bunch of processed food, lots more sugar / carbs than you need, and drinking alcohol, your immunity will be tanked. I'd never suggest skipping ALL of those things ALL the time, but most people need to be more realistic about what moderation looks like for their goals.

 

  • I don't force food for myself or my kids when we're sick. I lean heavily on appetite. Hungry? Eat. Not hungry? Don't eat. Your body will let you know when it's ready for food.

 

  • Hydrate! This I do much differently. Even if not thirsty, I will be mindful of staying hydrated. If not able to drink as much volume or if there is sweating (from fevers breaking), vomiting, or diarrhea, or an aversion to plain water, I add electrolytes. I love Redmond's Relyte brand and LMNT brand and will often use just partial servings spread out throughout the day.

 

  • Exercise. If you have a fever, congested lungs, or are vomiting / diarrhea, definitely skip your workouts until those things have been gone at least a full day or so. If it's just a little cold or minor, lingering symptoms and you're making sure you're eating well, sleeping well, hydrating yourself, and you're feeling up to getting in a shorter, less intense workout, it's probably ok.


  • Sunshine and fresh air. Being out in the sun used to be our default, now it's something we have to consciously seek out. Sun and fresh air each speak to our body in multiple and specific ways, influencing hormones, fertility, moods, bone health, blood sugar management, metabolic rate, heart health, immunity and more. It evens helps remove stains from clothing! Is there anything the sun can't do?? We make outdoor time a part of every single day, even on the yucky weather days (we still get the benefits of the sun through the clouds).

 

  • Movement. Move everyday if at all possible! Even a little walk or some stretching every hour or so will help keep your lymph flowing so your body can get rid of those germs for you.

 

  • Supplements. I maintain my normal supplements as long as I'm able to eat something b/c many (like fat-soluble vitamins) need food to be absorbed and I'd feel nauseous if I took my zinc, for example, on an empty stomach. Some that I take for immunity (you should only take what makes sense for your body, your deficiencies, etc.) are vitamin C, vitamin D, zinc, quercetin, magnesium, omega 3s, turmeric.

 

  • Mega-dosing. I typically avoid mega-dosing. My goal when I'm sick is a bit unusual ... I don't necessarily want to get better as fast as possible. I mean, I do in the moment of course lol, but ultimately since I'm already sick I want to make the most of it by mounting a potent immune response. Basically, I want a strong 'germ army' to form and don't want to interfere with this process by trying to micromanage everything or supplement my way out of that immune response. TLC, yes. Overriding important cellular processes that would set me up better in the future? No.

 

  • Warm liquids. There's something to be said for hot tea or chicken soup when you're sick. Not only can it be comforting and hydrating, but breathing in some of the warm steam into our nose can help kill off some of the germs that are still hanging out there and haven't affected you systemically, yet.

 

  • Fevers. I LOVE good fever. I know that's a weird thing to say and I know it doesn't feel good, but it's such an intelligent thing our bodies do sometimes ... turning up the temperature to kill off the germs. While rare, fevers can occasionally become dangerously high (especially in children), so I just monitor but do not give fever reducers. Exceptions? Sure. It hasn't happened to us yet (knock on wood), but if one of our children was SO uncomfortable b/c of their fever and needed a little relief to relax their body or get some sleep, I'd consider temporarily reducing it (probably with non-pharmaceutical methods at first and pharmaceutical if we deem it to be necessary). Otherwise we just do lots of comfort in other ways, snuggles, etc.

 

  • Important mindset piece: we're not "sick" or "not sick", we are constantly fighting off germs everyday, but sometimes our body wins the battle without us noticing and sometimes it requires a bigger fight and we can feel it.

 

  • Another mindset piece: we can assume we and everyone we know will get sick several times a year. If it ends up being less, great! If it's more, it's a good opportunity to consider why. Maybe it's bound to happen now b/c of the less exposure to people / crowds we've had in recent years. Maybe it's that there's been too much sugar and alcohol and not enough sleep and we can tweak those things if we want to. But regular ol' viruses getting us from time-to-time is just real life. Even the healthiest people still get sick. In fact, some holistic docs say that there's a health benefit to getting sick at least occasionally.




So there ya have it. We all get sick sometimes. And this is a lot of what I do for myself and my family in general and when any of us are under-the-weather. Hope you found it helpful and hope you get through this "sick season" as smoothly as possible.



XO,
Tara

Self Care or Self Indulgence?

We need to put our oxygen mask on first (like on a plane). I know I know but ...




How come it often feels self indulgent (not in a good way) to take care of ourselves?




I just started reading a new parenting book in my ongoing quest to feel like I have even a little bit of a clue about how to perform the most important role I have in this life. :-P I had a lightbulb moment in the introduction when the author was talking about the importance of self care as a parent.



She said, "Imagine this: You're rafting down a river with your family, when a section of whitewater rapids throws you into the water. There's no time for panic -- you've got to hustle. Your kids need you in the boat; besides, it's cold and dangerous in the water! The sooner you get back onto the raft, the better. You reach out your hand so the rafting guide can pull you back on board. Or do you? As parents, when something throws us off balance, we have a strange tendency to resist help that gets us back on track. It's as if we're so concerned about our kids staying on the boat that we don't take the hand that's offered to us. Instead we stay in the river, barely treading water behind the raft, which will do nothing to help our kids dodge the next set of rapids downstream."



Brilliant description, isn't it? We're so concerned that THEY (kids, partner, whoever) have enough to eat, but then think nothing of skipping meals earlier in the day and wonder why we're so cranky and ravenous at night. We think doing our best means doing the most and vow to "start over next week" with the goals we have for ourselves. We spend money like water on things we decide will make their lives easier / better, but feel guilty investing in something that will make us an entirely better person with confidence, health, and energy. Or heck, even the free stuff (walks, morning sun, exercise, cooking food we already have) gets moved to the back-burner (pun intended) because if it isn't "I don't have the money" then it becomes "I don't have the time".



We're really good at keeping the kids on the raft but somehow seem to think that we don't need to be on the raft alongside them.



Problem is, if we raise our children this way they will become adults who one day think they don't have the right to allow the guide to help them back onto the raft alongside their loved ones. Our JOB as caregivers -- if you are a caregiver -- is to coach them through being a kid but also being an adult as that's where they will be spending most of their years.



It's not self-indulgent to give yourself the same care + attention you would like to see your children (or any loved ones) give to themselves one day.



Suggestion. Pick ONE thing off the list below and schedule it into your week THIS week. Pick whatever stands out and think of this email as your sign to make it happen.


  • Schedule that doctor appointment, lab work, chiropractor consult

  • Set aside a little time to get in a workout. Maybe it's strength. Maybe it's some zone 2 cardio. Maybe it's been awhile since you've done any kind of HIIT. Whatcha need most? Do it.

  • Has sleep gotten away from you? It's easy (but oh so hard) to burn the candle at both ends in the Summer when days are longer. Set a bedtime and wake time and make sure the math works out for you to get enough zzzzs this week.

  • Take 5 minutes to stand outside in the sun, bare feet on the Earth for a quick recharge.

  • If you're feeling hopeless about some kind of goal you have, set aside some time to learn more about it and plan a small action step. Financials overwhelming? Book an appt. with a financial advisor. Parenting feeling extra hard? You might like the new book I just started -- The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids by Elaine Taylor-Klaus. Fat loss or health goals feeling impossible? Head over to my instagram page for some more free resources or hop on the waitlist for the September round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind (less than 6 days left to get on the waitlist!). Or, find out more about 1:1 coaching here. In each option, I gotcha covered in the fat loss / body / health departments. ;-)

  • Mind feeling chaotic? My favorite 1-2 punch for that is 1) declutter something (even just a drawer helps) and 2) spend 10 minutes on a hobby or planning something. Chaos can be from a cluttered environment or even feeling there's so much of life's hard stuff present in your life without enough of life's fun. Adding in that fun (hobbies, social plans, plan a trip, date night).

  • No idea which to pick? Just do a few rounds of 4-7-8 breathing right now. Breathe in for a count of 4, hold for a count of 7 and exhale for a count of 8. Repeat a few times. It's a calm-inducing breath pattern and excellent for reducing stress, anxiety, and helping with sleep.

  • In a rut? Shake something up! Cook a new meal this week. Or just serve lunch or snack to your kids in a muffin tray for funsies. Drink your seltzer out of a champagne glass. Keep the TV off tonight and the phone down -- find something else to do. Google a few jokes and text them to your besties. Start an unprovoked water balloon fight with your kids, partner or friend (I suggest making sure they're ok getting wet first ... unless you're more adventurous than me. Haha!)




September is around the corner. New month and new season (soon). Perfect chance to re-commit to taking action on the things that you KNOW will improve your life ... and spill out and onto the lives of your loved ones. Wrapping up the year feeling better and entering 2024 with newfound momentum just hits different.



XO,
Tara

This ONE question changes everything!

Ever find it hard to know when to push forward vs. when to pull back with your health goals?




Some people are so determined to keep exercise in, they feel too guilty taking rest days or workout even when they have a fever or lung congestion.


Some people are all about feeling good in the moment that they seemingly choose whatever fits their mood. Don't feel like working out today? They don't. But then their moods aren't great on a whole and their goals are left unmet.


How do we take the best from each of these 2 opposites and allow it to propel us towards whatever health or body goals we have?


By continually asking ourselves ONE simple question.


Ready for it?


"What's ultimately best for me right now?"


That answer will never steer you wrong IF:
1) You understand enough about your physiology + metabolism to make that call and
2) You're honest with yourself


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will be to rest when you have a fever or got 2 hours of broken sleep last night ...because the baby.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will mean you workout or at least go for a nice walk outside even when you're not in the mood or motivated because that choice will actually help with moods and motivation in the future.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will usually be that you eat in a way that's balanced and nourishing for your body but sometimes will be that you enjoy some soul food simply for the taste, nostalgia, memory or experience.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will tell you to go to bed at a decent time because one Netflix episode is better than 8 in a row as evidenced by the fact that less sleep makes you cranky, less patient with your kids, and dials up your cravings and hunger.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will not steer you wrong.


Try it on for size! I dare ya. ;-)


XO,
Tara


P.S. If you're ready for a change that you can't fail at and would like to work with me, here are a few options:


TRANSFORM: Body + Mind is my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. I recommend starting here for more people with fat loss, muscle-building or "toning up" goals. The next round (and last round of 2023) will be in September. Hop on the waitlist to reserve your spot as last September we filled up!


TRANSFORM: 1:1 is my newly revamped 1-on-1 coaching program and is best for those who have been through the 28-day course and are ready to take things up a notch or those who haven't completed the course but know themselves / their situation make it so 1-on-1 with lots of customization and accountability is really the better option. Spots are very limited but clients graduate out of their program fairly often, opening up new spots. Fill out the form and I'll be in touch to discuss if it's the right fit for you, how it works, and what future availability looks like.

Healthify My Summer: A Guide

We're going away soon.




Have you been following along up in Instagram stories? I've been sharing some BTS of my crazy ordering / packing / planning for this road trip. And as I've been doing that -- and getting excited about some other Summer fun we have planned like concerts, beach days, baseball games, BBQs, outdoor movies -- I decided to make a guide in case you have some of those things on the calendar for the rest of this Summer too.



Check out THIS GUIDE and then make it YOURS. Follow the suggestions that work for you and ignore the ones that don't. Summer is meant to be fun and we don't need to feel like garbage or slip away from our goals on the other side of those memories.



Summer on,
Tara





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5 Unusual Tips for Fat Loss NOW

So you wanna lose some excess body fat?




(If you don't want to "lose weight" or "tone up" at all, then you might wanna skip this one and come party with us again next week.)




Summer seems to be the time when the planners are wishing their weight loss plan worked better ... or that the results stayed and the procrastinators are ready to do some crazy sh*t just to feel a little more confident this season in their shorts. As such, Summer happens to be a time when a lot of metabolic damage is done. Every 1200 calorie diet, Optavia, diet pills, daily bootcamp classes or running are all risk factors that unfortunately can lead to chronic disease and / or autoimmunity years and decades in the future ... plus weight loss resistance which is the exact opposite of what the goal was.



Luckily, we know more now and we can evolve our strategies accordingly (even though most people will be continuing to use misinformed and outdated tactics for way longer than I'd like to even imagine).



Fat loss happens best when we work within what we know to be optimal fat loss conditions. This means we're aiming to lose excess body fat but not more (not muscle mass or bone...) so it requires a specific pace. Go too fast and you're losing weight for sure, but not the kinda weight you want to be losing. Here are some tips:




1) Eat more at mealtimes. I know if you want to lose weight, you think a 350 calorie meal is superior to a 600 calorie meal. I'm not a fan of counting calories but to more easily paint this picture, stay with me here. If you eat the 350-calorie meals, 1 of 2 things will happen -- 1, you'll end up being so hungry later that night, on the weekend, on holidays, or vacations that you'll feel yourself losing control around food and overeating. Or if you're so darn stubborn and manage not to ever overeat, your metabolic rate will drop in order to compensate. This means your thyroid will probably become sluggish, you might feel colder, weak, fatigued, low libido, and you will begin gaining weight with much less calories than you used to. Your goal here is to eat meals big enough and balanced enough that they keep you nice and satiated for at least 4 hours.



2) Be mindful of blood sugar. Yes, energy in energy out matters for weight loss. Also true ... not all weight lost is the same. If you want to maximize FAT loss, you need to make sure you are not riding the blood sugar rollercoaster all day everyday. This means you eat fat, fiber and protein at every single meal. It means you keep carb intake moderate. It means you understand that it's best to not eat carbs alone (no bananas or coffee with sugar on your way out the door). It also means that you understand we have an upper limit to what we can use before it gets stored away as fat. Keep carbohydrate-containing meals to 25-35g net carbs if you're a woman (35-50g net carbs for most men). More than that and you'll likely be storing the extra as fat. A "healthy" acai bowl or green juice can often contain 50-100+ grams of carbs / sugar! "Healthy" can be deceiving. 



3) Pick up weights. Weightlifting burns more calories than cardio. "What Tara? I always heard it's the opposite!" Well yes, if you're looking at it in a short-sighted way. Cardio tends to burn more calories in that one exercise session compared to a similar length session of weightlifting. However, the extra calorie burn stops when you stop moving with cardio. Yet when you increase your muscle mass by strength training, your metabolic rate for THE ENTIRE DAY, NIGHT, AND EVEN REST DAYS is elevated. Keep your cardio in because you love your lungs and heart and being alive. But it's not a great exercise focus for fat loss goals. Strength training is.



4) Move your body. Walking isn't your exercise, but hopefully it's a different part of your days! We need our exercise (cardio, strength) and then we need our active lifestyle too (walking, gardening, dancing, yoga, playing tag with the kids or grandkids, standing while watching that live music or game, carrying groceries in..) By making the non-exercise parts of your day more active, you will notice a WAY bigger boost in your metabolic rate. 



5) Daily sunshine and grounding. When we have excess body fat stored up in an amount that's more than optimal health levels and want to do something about that, we need to be thinking about improving our energy usage. We lose fat when we use it up. We use it up when better and more quickly when the batteries of our cells -- our mitochondria -- are abundant and in great working order. Heat and cold exposure help with this, so there's a bonus tip. ;-P But also getting your skin to come in contact with the Earth everyday. Ideally for nice chunks of time as we're really evolved to be outdoors mostly, but anything is better than nothing! If you're currently inside all day, you can start by committing to 5 minutes outdoors, standing in the grass barefoot and go up from there. This "charges" your cell's batteries in a way that allows them to utilize more energy / fuel / food. Meaning, this will improve your metabolic health and help with fat loss efforts.



And a bonus bonus one that didn't make the list because it's not unusual is .... SLEEP. It's arguably the mosts important as it will influence all the rest.



Which of these are you already doing? Which will you be focusing on? Hope you found this helpful! Please note ... this is 1 tiny sliver of the types of things we discuss in much greater detail in my 28-day metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind. The next round starts in September. If you're interested in learning more, check out this link and hop on the waitlist for any special offers and a discount code when the cart opens.



XO,
Tara

Healthy Summer Things

Summer time has me feeling all kinds of ways ....




Like I love it. But I hate mosquitos despite them loving me. And not a fan of ticks, either. And why is it so weird getting into a bathing suit for the first time every Summer?




I think often about how most of us grew up fearing the sun and yet one of the most beneficial things we can be doing for our health and body composition goals is ensuring that we're getting enough sun (but preventing harmful burns, of course).



Then there's the whole chlorine thing -- which I posted about recently right here.



And how can we leverage the fact that most of us are outdoors more often this time of year to help us build momentum on our goals? One way is by thinking about restructuring the water inside our body. Once again, for health AND body goals. Check this out.



Another great opportunity we have is to leverage temperature. Hot + humid outside? Go workout outside around sunrise or sunset and you've got your very own "infrared sauna" (we get natural infrared light through the sun around both sunrise and sunset). Then hop into a cold bath, shower, or baby pool filled with hose water and ice cubes. Boom. Contrast therapy!



I'm a big fan of the food that's in season now too! If you missed it, you can grab my 42-recipe Summer healthified dessert recipe e-cookbook, Sweet Surrender



Every season has its challenges. It's a regular showdown around here with those darn blood-sucking flying jerks. But each season also makes it a little easier to focus on our health and body goals in a slightly new way. What are you loving most about Summer?



XO,
Tara