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You didn't come this far to play small!

At some point, we all get a wake-up call


... that moment when you realize your body isn’t just yours to use and abuse however you want. It’s the vehicle that carries every dream you have yet to chase, every conversation you have left to enjoy, every person you love who wants you around for a long, long time.

And I need you to hear this: You are NOT done yet.

Years ago, before I ever got into this side of my work and was still working in the hospital setting, before I reversed my own metabolic struggles, I was constantly running on fumes.

I thought I was doing everything right -- I was an athlete! I was exercising, “eating healthy,” staying active -- but deep down, I knew many things were off. I was drained, moody, not as strong as I should have been. My metabolism was shot. My blood sugar was climbing. My energy was unpredictable. I wasn't getting a regular period ... and NEVER had.

And my doctors said, “Well, this is just what happens, sometimes.”

Except... it wasn’t.
That was a lie.


The truth? I didn’t know what I didn’t know. And neither did they.
And the moment I took my health into my own hands, everything changed.


More energy. More muscle. More clarity. More confidence.
Not just in my body, but in every single thing I did.


And once I felt what good actually felt like, I knew I could never go back.


The thing about fat loss and metabolic health? It’s never just about the weight. It’s about who you become in the process.

  • When you build strength, you build confidence.

  • When you feel energized, you start dreaming bigger.

  • When your brain is sharp, you make bolder decisions.

  • When your body moves the way you need it to, you stop playing small.


This isn’t just about looking good in a pair of jeans. This is about turning up the dial on your entire existence. Because in your 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s? You don’t want to be shrinking. You want to be expanding.


You want to be active, bold, vibrant, unapologetic You want to be taking up space, doing things that scare you, living so fully that people half your age can’t keep up.


I want you to climb mountains at 60.
I want you to dance at your grandchild’s wedding at 80.
I want you to laugh so hard with friends at 90 that you cry.

And I want you to walk into every damn room like you belong there. Because you do.

But here’s the kicker: it doesn’t just happen.

You have to demand it.
You have to train for it.
You have to give your body what it needs so it can give you the life you want.

The people who wait until they “have time” to take care of themselves? They wake up at 70 and wish they had started sooner.

The people who get after it now?
They break generational cycles. They rewrite stories. They become the kind of person who is both vulnerable and confident, humble and bold.


This is a walking, talking representation of metabolic health.

Your future self is out there waiting for you.
She’s watching the choices you’re making today.
She’s hoping you don’t let her down.

So tell me ... what’s the version of YOU that you want to be in 10, 20, 30 years? And are you making moves today to make sure she exists?

Hit reply and tell me. I want to know. Truly.



XO,
Tara


P.S. Are you following along on Instagram stories? I have some big things in the works for 2025 for you and me and I'm SO EXCITED for what it means for both of us.

The Fasting Way

Fasting is all the rage right now.



In fact, it's been said that "intermittent fasting" is the most common dietary plan in the United States at this time. So, is that a good thing? A bad thing? HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS.


Fasting it over-utilized as a fat loss tool, in my opinion, but underutilized as a health tool. While fat loss can occur if restricting the feeding window leads to less eating overall, many people who do not heal the relationship they have with food, understand how much and what kinds of food their body requires for their goals, and deal with things like emotional eating, etc. will not find much success until they address those things.


Do you purposely extend your natural overnight fasts by tacking on a few extra hours up front and on the back end too?


XO,
Tara


P.S. Ignore the fact that I got a haircut mid-video but edited the clips together like no time had passed. :-P Ya gotta fit things in when you can, right??

Why my virtual coaching program is 12 months!

Hey people!

Have you ever noticed the ridiculous claims some health and weight loss coaches make?

“Drop 20 pounds in 21 days!”

“Lose 3 pants sizes in a week!”

Blah, blah, blaaaaaaaaah.

Why are we drawn to such statements? Well, because we want to believe it’s true, even though we’re skeptical. The truth is, it doesn’t work that way. The other truth is, even if it DID work that way, when you when back to doing life after the week or 21 days, it would all. come. back (sometimes with interest).

My private, virtual coaching is a longer-term commitment at 12 months and I LOVE IT that way. It works. Check out this video to find out why. :-)

Happy weekend!

In good health,

Tara

Wrapping up 2018 with a WIN

October is HERE!

Isn’t that bananas?! I can’t believe we have entered the final 3 months of the year…the last 90 days…the 4th quarter…

Anywho, here’s what’s awesome about that: YOU get to decide how you want to end 2018. YOU get to choose to hold your head up and see this year out with tons of momentum going into the New Year. The holidays certainly bring up some unique hurdles and traditions, but it never has to mean that they have control over you. Never. YOU are always the one in control.

If you’ve been feeling like you want to focus on something - a goal - to wrap up the year and feel accomplished, then this video is perfect for you. We get into the 7 steps you need to choose what to focus on.

HOW do you want to feel on December 31st as you’re counting down 10-9-8-7…?

HOW do you want to show up for yourself?

HOW do you want your energy, your strength, your immune system, your confidence, your patience, and your life to look? Give yourself the edge this year and COMMIT to something.

It’s your journey. What will you choose?

In good health,

Tara

How often should you eat for weight loss?

Hey there,

If you are on a weight loss journey, you may be wondering how often you *should* be eating.

Is it 6 mini meals?

3 meals and 1 snack?

Three squares?

Check out my latest video to find out!  I'm also chatting about meal timing, frequency, metabolism, real foods, intermittent fasting, balancing meals, detoxing, and more.  :-)

Do you find these videos helpful?  Let me know!  Is there something else you'd like me to do a video on?  Drop that in the comments below!

In good health,

Tara